How Me and Babywearing Came to Be – Part 3/8

In June I was honoured to be interviewed by Birdie’s Room as part of their Spotlight On Babywearing Education. The full version can be found here.  I believe that parents should be given as many tools as they can to succeed in raising the next generation, and to remain sane while doing so!  – and that babywearing can contribute greatly to that success and sanity. I’m thankful that Birdie’s Room gave this opportunity to share about my passion!

Spotlight on Babywearing Education: Part Three

Why did you become a Babywearing Educator?

I love to share the opportunity for less stress and more calm to other parents and caregivers. I see parents almost everywhere who are trying to calm a tired and frustrated child, which is draining for both adult and child. A nap or a snuggle in a IMG_6563carrier can easily change that, and is much easier than, say, being at IKEA or the mall and holding a toddler in arms while they sleep. Too often parents give up on a carrier because it becomes uncomfortable or it’s too daunting, and almost every time it would only take a simple tweak to make the carrier feel great, or 5 minutes with an educator for a parent to gain confidence in his ability to use a carrier well. I saw how patient and encouraging the leaders in the Toronto babywearing group, Carry Me Close, were to all the members and I wanted to be part of that, especially in York Region where I live now, and where I am one of a handful of educators.

What Groups do you lead and/or volunteer at?

I am one of the leaders in the York Region Babywearers Facebook group. I became involved when I organized a few meet ups in south York Region, as the 2 current leaders lived up in Newmarket and most of the gatherings happened up there. I also hosted a few meet ups with other woven wrap users before taking the Level 1 course through the Canadian Babywearing School, and joined the YRBW leadership team in February 2017.

How Me and Babywearing Came to Be – Part 2/8

In June I was honoured to be interviewed by Birdie’s Room as part of their Spotlight On Babywearing Education, which I’ve broken down the interview into eight parts (full version can be found here; Part One can be found in this link). It was encouraging for me to reflect on my journey first as a mother, then as a babywearer, and finally as an educator and consultant. It hasn’t been easy, but I believe that parents should be given as many tools as they can remain sane while raising the next generation and that babywearing can contribute greatly to that sanity. =D I’m thankful that Birdie’s Room gave this opportunity to share about my passion!

Spotlight On Babywearing Education, Part Two

How did/has Babywearing let you carry on your everyday life as a parent?

I knew that with my 2 energetic older kids, I would need my hands free to play with them, hug them, and generally get things done. I anticipated I would need to do baby’s naps in the wrap regularly to keep the day running smoothly, and I was more than

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Wearing my youngest at 6 months old in a wool wrap using a ruck carry. Wearing the Junah soft-shell coat in -15 degrees Celcius.

right! My youngest had most naps in a wrap every day till about 6 months old, and thankfully he transition well to sleeping in his crib. Those wrap naps saved my sanity as I didn’t have to find a way to occupy my two older kids and I didn’t have a cranky, over-tired baby on my hands. I can’t imagine doing it any other way! Without babywearing, we definitely wouldn’t be considering to have another baby.

 

 

What do you love most about Babywearing?

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The Ontario Science Centre was more enjoyable with a carrier because I could skip the elevator line-ups.

Babywearing calms my anxiety and deflates my stress levels. There are so many things to watch out for as a parent, never mind as a parent of 3 kids. I’m always afraid I will forget something, and there have been times I’ve been late to feed my baby! Thankfully he is a *very* easy-going child, but I was glad to have him so close to me pretty much all the time in those first 6 months so I was never wondering how he was doing. I always knew what was going on, and I was able to attend to my older children as well. Babywearing also gives me freedom. I love that I didn’t have to lug around the infant seat around all the time when we were out, and that I didn’t have to plan around the use of a stroller – I didn’t have to hunt for elevators and ramps anymore! I can go almost anywhere I want to. I did have to pack lighter and more creatively since I would carry the bag instead of use the stroller, but that was a good challenge for a heavy packer like me.

How Me and Babywearing Came To Be – Part 1/8

IMG_7774In June I was honoured to be interviewed by Birdie’s Room as part of their Spotlight On Babywearing Education. It’s quite a bit to read, so I’ve broken down the interview into eight parts (full version can be found here). It was encouraging for me to reflect on my journey first as a mother, then as a babywearer, and finally as an educator and consultant. It hasn’t been easy, as this is still a new field business-wise and using a carrier is less normalized than, say, strollers  – which are not an alternative to carriers, but are a great partner to carriers in this journey of parenting young children. But I believe that parents should be given as many tools as they can to succeed in raising the next generation, and to remain sane while doing so!  – and that babywearing can contribute greatly to that success and sanity. I’m thankful that Birdie’s Room gave this opportunity to share about my passion!

And without further ado…

Spotlight On Babywearing Education, Part One.

Tell us a bit about yourself!

I’m a homeschooling mother of 3 kids 6 years and under. While I wasn’t expecting to be here – I completed my Masters of Divinity in Biblical Studies to be involved with church ministry – I’ve been open to homeschooling even before I had children. Like anything it has its ups and downs, but I love the time that I get to spend with my children. I also love music, and am currently learning to play the ukulele. I can’t wait till my kids can join me in playing! Re-watching TV series on Netflix is another pastime of mine – Bones, Grey’s Anatomy, House, Being Erica. I’d watch a new one but I get so drawn in, nothing else gets done!

How did you embark on your Babywearing journey?  

I started with a Moby with my first baby. I saw a friend use it at church and loved how close baby could be to the parent. It was intimidating to watch her wrap, and then learn it myself! – but the desire to hold my baby son close was my motivation. With my second, I invested in a Britax light structured carrier because I found the Moby uncomfortable when my son was 12 pounds and wanted something that lasted longer. While it helped, I found it bulky and difficult to bring around when not in use. When my daughter started to walk, I realized I would need something that I could use quickly when I took the two kids out together. I tried a Tula and while it was great, it didn’t completely meet my needs. I saw a friend who carried her 2 children, a toddler and infant at the time, in 2 woven wraps at a music festival and found it fantastic that there was something which allowed us parents to do this! I started with a mid-size wrap and was able to use a traditional sling carry for quick trips like crossing a parking lot or paying for something at the store, and use a ruck for her nap times when we were out. Once my third was born, I was very comfortable using woven wraps and haven’t looked back!

Winning the wrap & using it!

Congratulations to Crys, the winner of our giveaway! We had a great time getting to know the wrap, and it was sweet seeing her baby fall asleep within minutes of snuggling in. He was definitely fussy during the wrapping but calmed down fairly quickly. Crys is also the first receiver of our BabyLegs promo! With each lesson $35 or more, you can pick out either a newborn-sized pair of BabyLegs, a set from their BabyCool line (has UV protection!), or a good regular pair of BabyLegs. Available until supplies last!

 

 

Big ups in a big mall


Had a mother-daughter morning date at Yorkdale on Saturday. It’s been so long since we just hung out! I brought a wrap just in case she got tired after lunch. I didn’t think we’d actually use it but, as you can see, it came in handy. I think it was the first time someone over the age of 2 was carried around at Yorkdalr, and even more so inside Nordstrom. 😬 

It was a great time together when she was up though, much better than dragging Her Whineyness through the mall and parking lot. We got to chat, since her head was right beside mine and we could hear each other, and see dresses together, and I got to feel her sweet head at my neck when she wanted to lie it down. Instead of stressfully ending our outing, we had a lovely and snuggly 15 minutes together. 

Teething and fussy baby but tired arms = wrapping time

img_6518Just a short post here. I think toddler is breaking out yet another bunch of teeth (5 came out at one time, then another 3 before the previous group completely broke through!) as he’s been fussy, not nursing and not wanting to sleep. I’m not playing this game another night but my arms are tired from holding him for 30 mins already, so into a wrap he goes. Didymos Smeralda Prima size 4 in a Front Wrap Cross Carry tied under the bum allowed for snuggles, giggles, a late night snack and less-tired arms.

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Review: Junah soft Shell Coat part 2

Okay, I’m having some tech/layout difficulties with this post, but since it’s a long time coming, I’m going to post what I have anyway so readers can view the pictures and get a sense of the coat more closeup.


I really need to set up a proper photo drop! Some of these were taken at Harvey’s while my kids were at Gym class. =P And yes, I enjoyed some nice, fresh onion rings before heading back!

So this is a continuation of my review on the Junah Soft Shell Coat, focusing on the babywearin panel. Sadly I can’t find the maternity panel, but if the babywearing part interests you, you’ll find the maternity panel will service just as well. =)

What I Love

As you can see, the babywearing panel comes with its own hood. It’s one less thing to think about or carry! Velcro makes for a quick closure, and the hood is also has drawstrings for the edge to get a snug fit if preferred.

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Junah babywearing coat babywearing panel, hood open with toggle strings untucked for display.

What are those long strings, you ask? They are drawstrings just under the collar of the panel, which meets your child’s neck. They thread through the coat when the panel is on the back so that the wearer can tighten up the top if your child falls asleep. When the child is awake she would want to look around and would need the space to do so, but when asleep, the space is only a place for the head to flop around, so gently pull on those strings to bring her in closer to your back for a good snug nap as you go along your hike, walk, or shopping trip.

As you can see, the strings can be tucked into its enclosure when not in use. This is helpful when using it for front carries and for storage.

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fdfdf Junah coat babywearing panel, hood closed with toggle strings tucked away.

Following are some pictures taken during a rainy winter walk. I finally got my selfie stick and had an opportunity to walk out! Here is a picture of the coat from the side. As you can see, I did not zip the coat all the way up to give some room.

Even with my toddler getting bigger, I did not feel compressed or squished in the coat. I felt there was enough room to move around. I forgot to take a picture of this but the back of the coat, just above the opening for the child’s head, the material is ribbed and flexible, accounting for the need for movement while babywearing. Isn’t that awesome? =D

 

Junah coat with babywearing panel on the back, side view.

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So cold, need babywearing panel…

…but it’s nowhere to be found! =( ** I’m so sad that I can’t seem to locate it. I had it to take pictures with in preparation for my review, then needed it t take full-length shots but now it’s gone missing. =( Sorry for those who have been waiting. In the mean time, I will aim to get the Angel Wings fleece hoodie review up, and here is a shot of my very make-shift winter babywearing efforts for an impromptu outdoor outing!


In this picture I am wearing my Junah but, sadly, missing my babywearing panel. We were not expecting to be outdoors aside from in/out of the car, so I’m glad that I:

  • randomly grabbed my Junah wool sleeves (so warm!);
  • grabbed my Didymos Stone Cashmere Prima scarf (so soft!);
  • a decently grippy mid-size wrap in Didymos Verzasca Waves, recently returned from a visit to a fellow babywearer;
  • had kept a pair of BabyLegs in the car to slip under my toddler’s fleece pants.

I really, really wished I grabbed one of my long woolies just for kicks though, because it would have been really useful! I would have been able to cover my toddler’s feet since I didn’t bring any warm foot wear for him, and I could have created a nice warm chest pass for myself. Ah well!

Again this is a very make-shift effort to babywear in the winter, and definitely not what I would recommend! But, in a pinch, it worked for the 30 mins we lasted out and about. This was taken just before I went back to the car actually!

**UPDATE: I FOUND IT! And I will finish my review. And I will post pics of us at the Toronto Christmas Market!

Rave: The Versatility of Woven Wraps

Just a quick blurb to show an example of why I love wraps. The Olders want to shovel snow with Daddy in the front yard and driveway but their shovels are in the back yard. Of course Mommy will get it but Littlest doesn’t want to be left alone. So, I quickly throw him up on my back in a cushy and warm wool wrap, size 6 so I can half-knot in front and use the tails to cover his bare feet while we step out into the crisp, cold winter air. It’s only for a minute or so, and I could probably have his bare feet out while wearing a buckle carrier, but I absolutely love that a base-size wrap can help me get him up quickly, keep him warm (with the wool) and cover his feet. I was originally going to leave him to play but he’s been quite attached lately as he’s breaking in five teeth, so I’ll bring him with me to prevent a melt down and him scooting through the wet mess left by The Olders’ boots from an earlier play time. 

It was quick, he was happy, we were warm, and we got to enjoy a nice winter moment together.